The 10 types of Girls you’ll find on TINDER in Lebanon

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Expat who work in Lebanon: Mostly housemaids from Ethiopia and Philippines locked in their room trying to find a window for freedom, someone who they can communicate with without treating them like slaves or a different way to make some extra money during their weekend if they are allowed to leave the house. Usually the profile will be around 3 to 4 sexy pictures showing some targeted location in their body and in the body text will be: WHATSAPP ME 03123456

Expat in Lebanon for Vacation: There are a few of these profiles, but make sure to swipe left, as most of them are on Tinder to find a free transportation or a touristic guide who can take them around and at the end of the day she will end up like: “ Ohh I’m so tired and sleepy”, so you will be try to be nice this time and  take her to the hotel hoping to see her again but you will never hear from her since she already booked a different tour guide with a different victim.

Lebanese Selfie Girls:  There are different types of girls who belong to different backgrounds but I felt like they all deserve to be grouped under one group for having such interesting selfies as a main picture on Tinder, the magnet picture if you are trying to market yourself and try to meet some new friends or special one or one night stand or whatever you name it.
Let’s start with:

• Narguileh Pipe Selfie, definitely first date will be at Lebanese Cafe that serve Narguile and she will directly order a special one that comes with a BOUMALI fruit on the top that she always dreamed about to have once she Match with her Narguile selfie man on Tinder.

• Selfie with her Dog, I mean why would you have your main picture French kissing your dog, who would swipe right after that!

• Selfie with Her Male BBF, I never understand those BFF male kind of pictures where he’s all over her hugging her, kissing her, I mean I would love to be BFF with everyone if that’s how it works.

• Selfie with Fiancé or Husband, Sweetie Tinder was made for single people, for a quick hook up, for new friends. I believe you are at the wrong place unless you are planning to cheat on him.

• Selfie with 4 different beautiful girls, alright that’s nice she has lots of cute friends but hold on most of her picture with the same 4 girls I mean how the hell would I figure out which one is you?

• Selfie at the Gym, well honey make sure to be aware of who and what’s going on around behind you, make sure to take it at the beginning we don’t need to check your sweat circles under your arms

• Bikini Selfie, during summer you will have plenty of bikini selfie taking from her right angle showing some cleavage and hips & maybe more I mean why the hell would you post such pictures on a dating app and you’ll be offended with the comments or the type of communication that you might have with your matches!

 

Too Many Mutual friends: Make sure to swipe Left, girls will never swipe right when they have mutual friends, you can always check her out on Facebook on the main search bar or through your mutual friend profile and if she’s worth it why not give it a shot.

The Freak:  You both match and you take the initiative to open the conversation of course since she will never start a conversation, her dignity and pride won’t let her. It’s a Lebanese thingy if you ever tinder in Beirut you should say hi first or else she will never ever say hi unless she’s ugly as fuck and so desperate. Fine, will start the conversation but she will never reply back she keeps on reading and never reply back to you, I mean why the hell you swiped right if you are not interested to open a conversation, or why don’t you swipe left if you swiped right by mistake, you will never understand this type of psycho you better swipe left and not waste your time with that freak.

Religious Quote Girl : Why would you have a religious quote in Arabic as profile picture I mean WTF, religious quote on a dating app is such a turn off, make sure to swipe left and Report her, girl you are at the wrong app make sure to download ISIS app you might find your match over there.

Lebanese girls in Dubai: She’s stuck in Dubai and trying to find her match back in Lebanon hoping to find that bridge and cross it back ,you will be surprised but those type might be the one, you never know at least she know what she’s looking for.

Not looking for anything: Why would you download the app if you are not looking for anything, I do understand those who mention we are not looking for a hook-up or only looking for friendships, but I never got  the logic behind those who are tindering and not looking for anything WOW get out of this app!

Not looking for hook –up: She will post on her profile that she is not looking for a hook up, but when you actually meet , she’s looking for exactly that and she’s totally open and a fun person and she doesn’t mind anything I mean why do you need to play it that hard and promote yourself the hard to get  and you end up in bed after couple of drinks. But sometimes these girls actually mean it and are looking for the man of their dreams—on Tinder.

The one: To end it with a positive type, you never know you might meet the perfect woman which is rarely but you might be lucky enough to find the woman of your dreams through Tinder and she’s everything you’ve ever dreamed off the smart, cool, attractive  and fun.

A few things I’ve learned in 2015

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As we’re reaching the end of the year, it’s that time again when we all look back at what we’ve accomplished during the year, what are the things that touched us or made our year, and what things we wish would have gone differently. It’s also that time when we contemplate on what we didn’t achieve throughout the year and what was missing, and when we set new goals and resolutions for the coming year.

2015 was a pretty defining year for me, with ups and downs of course. I can’t call it the best year of my life, nor can I say that it was a bad or mediocre year. What I can call it I guess is a turning-point year. A year where I’ve learned and grown a lot, changed perspectives and priorities, reached long awaited breakthroughs, and set a clear path for myself to follow.

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Lebanese Woman Age Group Cycle

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15 to 21 and still discovering the Universe

This is the peak age for this group in which the women are full of energy, excitement and enthusiasm. She wants to discover new things, go out and meet new friends, collect new boyfriends, and start experiencing her “first things”: first kiss, first drink, first smoke, first failure, first broken heart. At this stage she is a rebellious person, not materialistic at all, hip and trendy; she’s into piercings, tattoos, and concerts.

She is always fighting and arguing with her parents. She claims that her parents don’t understand her and that they deny ever being her age and wanting the same things she wants today. Your role here is not to be this parent figure, but instead be the person who will listen to her stories; the interesting and the boring. Try to act as if you are really interested and that you care for her and her stories. I call this period the “HABAL“ period which will set the stage for the following age group, in which she will discover that once she graduates from a university she will have new responsibilities, a job, a new life, a career and overall new surroundings.

 

21 to 27 Enjoying my life to the Max

This is the middle age that is full of a different kind of energy; the mature type of energy directed to moving to a new life and developing into a different person. She develops a unique personality, almost like a different character. As she moves towards maturity, she becomes pickier with her choices and begins to turn into a materialistic person. She will be concerned with the school you went to, which university you graduated from, what kind of car you own, the area in which you live, where you originally came from, which company you work for and what your position is, etc. She is always looking for top qualifying guys. She is concerned with whether or not you own popular brands of clothing and your high position or title in order to continue on with the process or possibility of accepting you.

From age 21 to 24, she’s just looking for normal relations; nothing out of the ordinary. She doesn’t care if you play around or if you’re not serious, since she’s not serious about you either and she’s just having fun with a good person who treats her in a good way. She will tell you, “Don’t rush. Take it easy on me, and don’t push a lot.” But she’ll want you to keep the same level of excitement about her. “I’m just having fun with you and, trust me, I don’t have fun with just anyone.”

Ah, if only the majority of these women really existed. I always wonder how “cool” it would be to have that woman, instead of having a nagging, typical woman who wants to be serious all of the time. How many of you out there are waiting for someone like her? But, if you think about it, how would you treat her and what would you think about having a relationship with someone like her? You wouldn’t make it in the relationship. Remember, we need to keep that balance in order to achieve the ultimate goal.

After reaching ages 25 and 26, women will start to become more serious in their relations and pickier in choosing “the one.” She now has a time limit because of her age since, in a couple of years, she should commit to someone and start heading in that direction; moving that relation to a different, more serious level. You will experience this stage shift yourself, and realize that whenever you meet someone who’s at the end of their middle age, they become more serious and will begin to highlight “what needs to be done now.”

She will tell you that you need to take this relation to a serious level by starting to plan. She will terrorize you with her ideas: Do you like children? What would you name them? Do you prefer a boy or a girl? Where would you like to buy a house; in Beirut or outside of Beirut? And, so on and so forth. You, on the other hand, will begin to move back in your thoughts, thinking deeply about this “issue” and how to solve. You will fee that you need to be honest with her, and tell her what you need exactly and where you see yourself in the coming years. Basically, what I’m saying is, just be honest with her; almost transparent.

27 to 33  the Mid age

 

This is the borderline age, or the limit age. I call it the borderline age because I believe that these women start to stress and begin to look around in order to find “the one,” and sometimes that could mean finding “just any one” who can match the basics of life. Someone who will help her survive through the next couple of years; even if she doesn’t initially or necessarily love him, she will learn to convince herself that that feeling with eventually settle with time. She convinces herself that she will “adapt” to him, to get used to that person who will be with her for her entire life. I know a handful of desperate women who did just that and it turned out to be the wrong choice for some, but for others it was a lucky draw.

I want to share a story of a friend who lived and worked in Lebanon; a nice, attractive woman and well educated. At the age of 28, she met a man through friends of friends who worked and lived in KSA and developed a relationship with him. He was older by 16 years; he was in his 40s. To some people, she did the right thing. She escaped from life and just went for it. Everyone will live their lives differently, and not everybody should get married and have children. To some, this lifestyle is full of suffering. Others may prefer to stay single their entire lives; I’m sure you will manage to live and enjoy life like the next person would. If this is the lifestyle that you’re your personality and character, don’t force it. Live day by day and let things be. What’s written for you has already been written in stone; and approved. Don’t try to change it, because you can’t.

33 to 40 the Spinster age

 

This is what I call the “Spinster” age: you are officially born to be single and focus on your career. Women in this age will turn out to be more interested in pets. Owning a dog or a cat to take care of and spend time with will be a more pleasant experience than having a man. Some of these women have huge egos, and they’re busy with their career or studies and with collecting diplomas; then, MBA’s and doctorates, or perhaps a second or third major. Perhaps these certificates and plenty of books satisfy her more than any man ever would. Maybe she was born for that, and that is her calling in life.

These women will be at a high position and will have stable jobs; in other words, they have a “dominatrix” kind of personality. If she ever does date, she would either need to date someone with no personality at all or someone who has similar characteristics. After dating a “weak-minded” man, she will get bored and move to someone who is more so on her level. They will end up fighting and arguing with each other because she will realize that she can’t control him, and he won’t be able to control her. The cycle continues back to square one, until she once again ends up all alone.

Some of these women will live independently and alone in some studios in Beirut, like in Hamra, Gemmayzeh, Mar Mkhayel, etc., or in a chalet by the beach in Jounieh, Tabarja, Safra or Jbeil. Some other women are likely to spend their lives serving the needs of their parents, or caring for their siblings and their nephews.

40 to Adios Amigos

I don’t think you would need me to help you with this section, especially when it comes to the countdown age to heaven; you will say, “ Who cares…”

Sex Vs Money in relationships

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Couples failure in Lebanon

No planning means miscommunication or some sort of dysfunction in the relationship, I would put the blame on both, not just the girl if she later on wasn’t willing to butt in for help. It’s not about money, if they had organized a long term plan with what he strictly earns or with what they both earn cumulatively, things would have sailed smoothly, if you just marry for love you might as well chop off your ear and say oops I didn’t know I’ll lose it forever!

Marriage is a hard task, it’s no different than running a real company, only the revenues are emotional and not financial. Anyhow people need to voice out their conveniences from the beginning and adapt to the other.

Otherwise nothing will work out, with or without the help of money. Maybe that’s why Europeans have a more grounded image about the topic. Equality is there to keep agreements and disagreements levelled. It doesn’t make them interdependent from the other. One would help out the other in need from time to time but when the storm subsides they go back to walking side by side without getting into each other’s road.

As much as every guy wants sex, every girl is looking for that knight on the white horse. You need to keep that in mind, consider your search endless then; these things are builtin by instinct. On another level, as much as some rare men prefer a deep core plus the sex, some almost extinct women also prioritize the core over the loaded bank account.

But that doesn’t wash away the necessity for sex or the money for either party. My point is that women will always require or expect you to be more responsible one financially. It can’t be equal partnership. Even in real business there is nothing like equal partnership, someone is always the dominant one, it’s simply again an instinctive attraction that is subconscious to a girl and that assures her that you are able to take care of her and her offspring.

You’ve got the man who has a limited financial source and unable to spoil her or the kids much, is less tempting than someone who is able to saturate her and her kids’ full needs at a 100%. Sometimes the relationship is great and the guy is awesome but the girl’s guts keep screaming that something is off. Here is where the brain takes over and it diverges the 2 groups of girls.

On the other rate level again, those girls favour the saturation of the naïve aspects of a relationship, the care, the laughs, the communication.  So money, however crucial it may be, it can be compromised and settled at a lower cost for the sake of genuine feelings. It’s not an easy thing to shallow but it’s worth it. Exactly like settling for the less pretty girl when your friend gets the hotty. It pricks you deep down but you know that you have is more valuable on other levels.

Questions & Answers:

Dependent Vs independent 

European Woman ( Answers ):

• Describe the man of your dreams in 20 words.

– Most of all, he should be my best friend in the world. I need to be able to trust him and know, that he will be there during bad times as well. The other times, he should make me laugh and show me that he cares

• Would you ever think about saving money to support your future husband?

– I am not sure if marriage is the life model I want to pursue, but if I do, I would like to maintain my personal independence in a financial way, meaning, sharing costs and expenses to a more or less equal degree, depending on the income of both partners.

Are you with the fact of being equal with man in everything from A to Z?

– Yes. I don’t mean that in a feminist way, I do believe that there are differences in men and women and therefore certain roles in a relationship. Yet I believe everyone has the same rights and duties but maybe shouldn’t mind to cover the other once in a while

• If yes, would you share with your man the cost of living, buying an apartment, wedding arrangement, furniture, raising the kids etc..?

– Definitely.

• Do you think things should remain the same comparing to our parents life? Or things are different now, and life is harder?

– I think times have changed a lot. I think society and moral standards are very different in Lebanon than where I come from (Germany), and among my generation and my friends back there, values have changed significantly. Religious factors are mostly out of sight and it is very common to have a relationship and children without being married. Independence of both partners has become more important. I will definitely change my life comparing to the life of my parents, in matters that the family model is not a must, I am not sure if I want to have children or get married when I am older. My life goal is finding my own place before anything and continue travelling as long as possible.

• Answer by YES OR NO:

1. Would a man prefer an independent woman?

Yes.

2. Would a man prefer a dependent woman who usually depend on her parents in everything single detail in life?

No.

3. Would a man accept the support of his future partner (wife) financially?

Yes

4. Would a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she was independent and support him in everything?

Yes.

5. Would you think a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she depend on him in every single detail?

No.

 Typical Lebanese Woman (Answers):

• Describe the man of your dreams in 20 words.

I’ll do it in few words: perfect and complete on all sides (health, wealth, looks, family, desires and goals in life)

• Would you ever think about saving money to support your future husband?

No. the salary of a woman is still too minimal according to a man’s one in Lebanon. I get less than the half of a guy with my experience. And even if it wasn’t, my answer would still be no anyway!

• Are you with the fact of being equal with man in everything from A to Z?

In basic rights or existence and respect: yes.

In responsibilities: hell no!

• If yes, would you share with your man the cost of living, buying an apartment, wedding arrangement, furniture, raising the kids ect..?

Refer to both questions 2 and 3 J

• Do you think things should remain the same comparing to our parents life? Or things are different now, and life is harder?

I abstain from answering. I consider I have paid my dues to life and by now I won’t enter a marriage unless it would leave me like a spoiled princess.

• Answer by YES OR NO:

Sorry I couldn’t’ because the answers depend on the case!

1. Would a man prefer an independent woman? Personality wise, yes. Other than this it’s his duty, as a man, to care for her.
2. Would a man prefer a dependent woman who usually depend on her parents in everything single detail in life? Shouldn’t but ask a dude, he can answer better :p
3. Would a man accept the support of his future partner (wife) financially? Why not if she’s willing to chip in. but again, a dude can answer this better J
4. Would a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she was independent and support him in everything? He should treat her equally no matter what! Walaaaaaw!
5. Would you think a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she depend on him in every single detail? Yes, a real man would J

 A Lebanese woman born in Lebanon but lived in Europe ( Answers ):

• Describe the man of your dreams in 20 words.

Intelligent, funny, adventurous, handsome, successful, career-oriented, sharp, takes things with a pinch of salt, loves to travel and experience different cultures, wants a family, reliable.

• Would you ever think about saving money to support your future husband?

No, I would expect the both of us to save money to support our family and ourselves.

• Are you with the fact of being equal with man in everything from A to Z?

Yeah definitely.

• If yes, would you share with your man the cost of living, buying an apartment, wedding arrangement, furniture, raising the kids ect..?

Yes.

• Do you think things should remain the same comparing to our parents life? Or things are different now, and life is harder?

I think we need to adapt to the changes in the world and the country/culture we live in.

• Answer by YES OR NO:

1. Would a man prefer an independent woman? Yes
2. Would a man prefer a dependent woman who usually depend on her parents in everything single detail in life? No
3. Would a man accept the support of his future partner (wife) financially? No (he should be independent and not rely on the wife)
4. Would a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she was independent and support him in everything? Yes
5. Would you think a man accept to treat his wife equally in their future life if she depend on him in every single detail? No

Wake Up call… Effet de l’Ice Bucket Challenge et son Renversement humanitaire ?

How to make a Lebanese Woman Happy ?

HOW TO MAKE A LEBANESE MAN HAPPY:

1- Feed him

2- Sleep with him

3- Leave him with peace

4- Don’t check his phone (Msgs)

5- Don’t bother him with his movements

6- Let him watch football peacefully

7- Don’t share with him his Arguile

So what’s so hard about that?

HOW TO MAKE A LEBANESE WOMAN HAPPY:

It’s really not too difficult but… To make a LEBANESE WOMAN happy, a man only needs to be:

1. A friend
2. A companion
3. A lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. A chef
8. An electrician
9. A plumber
10. A mechanic
11. A carpenter
12. A decorator
13. A stylist
14. A sexologist
15. A gynecologist
16. A psychologist
17. A pest exterminator
18. A psychiatrist
19. A healer
20. A good listener
21. A n organizer
22. A good father
23. Very clean
24. Sympathetic
25. Athletic
26. Warm
27. Attentive
28. Gallant
29. Intelligent
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Tender
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Courageous
40. Determined
41. True
42. Dependable
43. Passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

4. Give her compliments regularly
5. Go shopping with her
6. Be honest
7. Be very rich
8. Not stress her out
9. Not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

1. Give her lots of attention
2. Give her lots of time, especially time for herself
3. Give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

3. Never forget

*birthdays

*anniversaries

*valentine

*arrangements she makes

FINALLY:

4. Make sure to go for sun tanning with her
5. Make sure to listen to her stories from A to Z
6. Make sure to wait for her even if she was late for one hour
7. Make sure to accept a moody person ( PMSing )
8. Make sure to suggest the plans but end up following her plans
9. Make sure you answer her calls whenever she does even if you can’t.

The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge Lebanese SHOW – OFF Version

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Stars In Lebanon

The ALS ice bucket challenge has been accepted by Lebanese singer Haifa Wehbe , who in turn she nominated Rihanna ( are you dreaming or what ” habla “),Tarek Freitekh Bassem Fattouh , Wael Mansour & Patricia Hachem to take on the challenge.

Stars in Lebanon are volunteering to do it just to look “cool”, while they won’t spend a dime to help anyone in need. You all seem so silly with your show off! We definitely should find a name for your disease let’s see how about: (I AM STUPID AND I SHOW- OFF), Which ironically sums up to the acronym ISIS… oh yeah welcome to the Middle-East!

Water Situation in Lebanon

Despite the ongoing water crisis in Lebanon, the growing phenomenon that is the ice bucket challenge has been readily adopted, with many dousing themselves in buckets of ice water while seemingly missing the philanthropic point.

Fake Lebanese… They’d rather do something else to draw attention to fight corruption, sectarianism and call on national unity!! It’s not about just dumping water on your head you silly people!

Ice bucket challenge in USA Vs Water Drop Challenge in Africa

It’s about a “CAUSE”, fighting a disease rarely spoken of! I doubt even that most people who do it in Lebanon even know what it is about! I ran into a couple who decided to do it just for fun! Now they are doing it in offices and posting it on facebook to get likes while no one says anything about the disease.

What’s an ALS?

Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS)—also referred to as motor neurone disease (MND), Charcot disease, and, in the United States, Lou Gehrig‘s disease—is a neurodegenerative disease with various causes. It is characterised by muscle spasticity, rapidly progressive weakness due to muscle atrophy, difficulty in speaking (dysarthria), swallowing (dysphagia), and breathing (dyspnea). ALS is the most common of the five motor neuron diseases.

Companies in Lebanon:

They never miss a chance to promote their products using certain events like war in 3erssel , explosions , terrorist act even good cause turning it to commercial to get some likes and share and more coverage to promote a certain product which is really sad …

PS: you need to review 101 Advertising Ethics .

Another bad example about using a good cause to collect couple of viewers on youtube which didn’t reach the 400

 

While other companies such as Zaatar wou Zeit who turn this upside down and introduce a new idea by creating a different concept and linked the trendy Ice bucket cause to help and support the Lebanese NGO’s by:

Help us supporting this cause by sharing this video as we will be donating 1$ for every share.
Since we would also like to raise awareness for Lebanese NGO’s, we will nominate:
Kunhadi, DONNER SANG COMPTER and FoodBlessed
You guys have 24 hours to complete the challenge.

 

 

3 Ways to Find the Right Girl for You

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1- Who are your Target?

We call it profiling your costumer or selecting your women as targets; women that you would aim to target from the very first move. Paradigms serve as both a lens and a filter in our view of the world. It is through the lens that we are able to seek, speculate and discover. However, making simple observations will not suffice; without a filter it is almost impossible to strain the good discoveries from the bad, to give meaning to or distinguish between our observations so that we may better understand how to operate.

Paradigms serve as a filter in our view of the world just as resourcefully as pans serve a diamond hunter. It is through personal paradigms that we map out a formulation or a mental model of our view of the world to make better inferences, reconsiderations, relations, and associations. Before doing anything else, you need to know whom you want to be with.

The most important thing is to know what you want to accomplish, first and foremost. You should try to identify your goals so you can then find the right person who will satisfy those goals instead of looking for someone who doesn’t match your objectives or needs, which could lead to a situation where it would require involving a third party to come to the rescue and much time would be wasted that way.

You don’t want to involve others in your personal endeavors, especially Lebanese people who are likely to give their unwanted advice and opinions by convincing you that you are making a mistake with your every move. Take your time, be patient, and most importantly be intelligent with your decision-making skills in choosing “the one.”

Try to look for more than one person; at the same time, you can try to target around 3 to 4 customers. Again, explore your options. Play the role of an investigator by exploring, analyzing, and assessing your options. Remember that what you look for and what you find might not always work out for you. Looking for treasure and finding dirt does not make the trip worthwhile. You may be looking for a particular type of woman, but may end up finding someone who possesses totally different characteristics than what you had expected. This may be a good thing, but we cannot simply rely on chance or luck. Sometimes you may need to customize yourself for some costumers for it to work out; always try to mirror her.

2-What do they want?

Find out what she’s looking for, what kind of relation she needs. What satisfies her, what her thought patterns are, what her social history consists of. If she’s looking for a serious relation try to find out what serious level she’s looking for. Sometimes she could be looking for a commitment that would lead to a marriage; some might be looking for good company, while others seek fun without any kind of relation. She just needs to trust you to give herself to you. Remember to always avoid being pushy; once you push more, the women will pull more.

In other words, try to keep a balance. Think of it as Yin and Yang. Always push and pull equally. Don’t pull a lot and don’t push a lot. Women tend to dislike pushy guys, so try to show her interest but don’t ever show her that you want her so badly and that you’re dying to be with her (even though you are). Be patient and give it time.

Think of being in the kitchen; when you attempt to cook something you always give it time to have it well done. The same thing goes in relationships: cook it well before you start eating your dish. Don’t call her every day, every morning or every night. Give her some space, and don’t ever show that you are in a rush for any kind of relation. Don’t give a lot of compliments and avoid flirting; it doesn’t work anymore. Try to act normal, be frank and straightforward. You can still do with some small lies but, preferably, something logical.

3-How have you changed?

Analyzing your personality and your character or how much you changed after learning from your own experience year by year through meeting different people and gaining new knowledge about this and that, you have to keep on changing and staying up to date with all the changes around you. Conform to societal trends even if it means altering your personality traits, your physical appearance, etc. The trend in terms of technologies, music, style, the way you talk, languages, and how to communicate; all of which mirror the woman you seek.

It is a completely different field, as you now know, marketing yourself to a woman. She is looking for something very, very different. You want to first find out what group of women you are marketing towards. You have to be very specific in your considerations of age, demographics, social status, and race; that sort of thing. A good way to start is by utilizing a simple “test.” Test your woman in every way possible. Make her laugh, make her cry, argue, take care of her, make her jealous; do whatever it takes to test her limits. How much can she take? How long would she last? How far is she willing to go? At this time, you can also test yourself and assess your own wants and needs. Are you looking for something serious? Do you see yourself with her in a long-term relationship, or is this likely to be a one-night stand?

Once you do have your market it is time to develop a test group. Try to meet different women and begin to group them into categories. Test yourself with them. Let them feel comfortable. Let them take a look at you and try to feel if they like you or dislike you after the meeting, that way you will get a general feel about the market that you have made yourself available to. Find out about what their feel is, what their likes and dislikes are, and then you can begin thinking about the introduction part.

5 Things Lebanese Women should stop doing at the gym

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1-      Turn off the WIFI, 3G, 4G and any other internet related connection

Congratulations for finally hitting the gym and working on that dream body of yours! Whether you are working at Abou Garo or at Fitness Zone, checking-in at Foursquare and taking that selfie to post on Instagram and Facebook with those putrid hashtags (#sweating #stink #burning #fat –on a side note you need to learn to properly hashtag) do not make that skinny body and those squatted hips. Drop the phone, disconnect, enjoy your training and relax for an hour or two; the world won’t come to an end during this time, I promise!

 

2-      Stop Socializing

Here’s a quick reminder of the gym definition: a gym is a place, typically a private club, providing a range of facilities designed to improve and maintain physical fitness and health.

While it mind sound fun to socialize with new people, especially after long working hours, do not go to the gym if you don’t intend to work-out. It’s not a must to hit the treadmill right after you punch-out of the office, however, it is a must to walk/run on that treadmill once you hit it. Standing there spilling dirty words on your boss with another wanna-be-gym-addict standing on the treadmill next to you is not acceptable. Would you like your coffee served with or without sugar m’aam?

 

 

3-      Stop using the gym WIFI

“kill shi bi baleish kattir minno” but saving your Megabites and downloading those new apps and latest updates while at the gym is disrespectful and annoying. Everything has its place and the gym is not a place for uploads, downloads, updates, skype sessions with live cams (walaw! with all your sweat, blondie?), week-end Instagram uploads (btw, you should also learn that Instagram is to be used instantly (one or two pictures as a max, Facebook is for albums!!!) and instantly, on the spot, except on Thursday, Thursdays are okay for throwback memories)

Tip of the day: we have a list of coffee shops that provide free WIFI to their visitors, in case you insist on saving that $10 per month and going cheap.

 

4-      Stop worrying about your looks

The gym is a place to turn hot and sexy. But during the process, there are no books to tell you that you should look good while it happens; make-up and up-dos are not made for the gym, and that hot guy you really like… oh well, maybe you should know that he is a lot more interesting to see you working hard than looking at the mirror while burling those weights (and for God’s sake, it’s time to move to the 2kgs already!)…. Back to the guy? Oh well, what every girl should know is that men are fond of a girl who is not scared to sweat her ass off while training. Train good and hard ladies, good and hard!

 

5-      Stop dressing inappropriately

Modeling around, half naked, with that extra fat bump exposing from your outfit is disgusting. I’m not attacking you and I highly appreciate your effort of working hard, burning that fat, and not disgusting me at the beach next month, but seriously now… get an outfit that fits you, not your baby sister!

 

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